J.P. D’MELLO AND KIFF LEAGUE.This is in response to the news article in this forum on 23.07.08 of the J.P. Memorial KIFF League Football Tournament final written by prominent Goan writer and former National footballer Gasper Crasto. There is nothing much to write further on this since the writer has covered all the points minutely and poignantly too on certain incidents still happening during our soccer games.
When UG started our soccer in 1979, I interviewed the then UG President Tony Fernandes from Siolim who himself was once an ace footballer in Goa playing for the Goan top teams Bemfica and Lube. Tony said, at his place in Salmiya, "These soccer activities are initiated to promote friendship and good will amongst us. Thru these soccer activities, there should be more unity amongst Goans’.
This interview I conducted on behalf of ‘Goycho Mog’, a Goan Konkani Weekly from Margao. After reading the news on the final, I still feel some discords are happening amongst us, may be because we all cannot accept the defeat sportingly. Victory and defeat are part of the game. We are not competing in World Cup to take the defeat so seriously. Even in the World Cup and in Euro Cup the defeated teams accept the defeats and leave the field gracefully.
Though for some it is difficult to accept the defeat yet the seniors and elders in the teams and team management must try to console the hurt and defeated. Let us try to build more and more friendships thru this football.
Our discord will surely have bad effect on our friendly relationship. We Goykars especially the Goa based Goans must try to overcome our partisan differences and come together for the betterment of our Goa. As it is, Goa is getting finished for Goans. Our Goan Clubs and Teams must utilize their resources and manpower to protect Goa from going into the hands of non-Goans. To do this we must have our unity starting first at soccer grounds where Goans congregate in large number.
Though UG initiated our soccer activities with the intention of promoting friendship amongst us, yet they were the first to destroy this friendship existing amongst us when they maliciously suspended G.O.A. Maroons from their tournament. This they did only to disintegrate the then powerhouse Maroons which engulfed in its fold the best available footballers in Kuwait amongst us. Besides G.O.A. had an excellent band of committee members of which type no other club or team had and will never have either.
UG was jealous of G.O.A. Maroons progress and to further stop the development of Maroons, the Divadkar and Siolekar became the main architects of suspending Maroons even against the wishes of other members. The seed of discord amongst us thus for the first time was sowed by UG against their principle which said “friendship thru sports”. Unfortunately, they inculcated “enmity thru sports”. G.O.A. Maroons is still going strong while once mighty UG is TOTTERING and if nothing can be done to revive it, then it will disappear like an ETHER. As it is their former office bearers and supporters have already ‘DESERTED’ UG. Their fall is very imminent, either today or tomorrow.
It is nice to remember J.P.D'Mello (J.P) by organizing the Kuwait Indian Football League Tournament in his honour. He was the backbone of our activities then at Sour Grounds in the sense that he was a guide and mentor for us and although his total allegiance was for UG yet he said “I am for all Goans and for football”. Because of his presence amongst us, we attained certain respect in Kuwait as far as soccer is concerned. He was a genius in soccer laws. Once, the then mighty Indian soccer organizer from Bombay Mr. Ziauddin, while having conversation with JP at Cooperage said, “Mr. J.P., can you please give me that genius brain of yours where soccer knowledge is stored? If you give me that then I will give you anything”.
JP had great love for Goa and Goans and he participated in our activities for the cause of Goa, Goans and Konkani. In Kuwait, everyone involved in soccer loved and liked him except one Mangalorean Judas Iscariot, an ex-IFRA referee who inspite of receiving farewell parties is still rotting in Kuwait taking Bible in his sinful hands. He was envious of J.P because he could not do what JP could do. May the genuine Goan soul of JP Rest In Peace.
When JP was first time brought to Sour Ground after his arrival in mid eighties, Tony Fernandes the then UG President introduced him to me. While exchanging views, suddenly JP saw the boundary Flags which were very small in size. Then he immediately asked Tony: “Are you running this tournament on FIFA rules or your own rules?” Tony answered “as per FIFA rules”. Then JP told Tony to change the Flags to bigger size as per FIFA rules. While this conversation was going on, there was one UG man, little drunk, who started poking his nose in the discussion. JP asked: "Who is this man? Tony said “he is one of our members”. Then JP retorted rather bluntly and also sarcastically: “How can you run football tournaments with such “Bebdes” (Drunkards)? Keep such persons out of your reach because they bring soccer into disrepute”. Bebdes are Bebdes, however much educated they may be. And those who are supporting Bebdes are double Bebdes.
JP was very rigid as far as physical fitness of the Referees and other requirements were concerned. Many of the current referees are overage; they have crossed more than the permissible age limit prescribed by FIFA. Some of them are become paunchy with their bellies like watermelons and yet still shamelessly officiate the games either from the middle or from the lines. Once they know that they have crossed their age limit they must voluntarily withdraw with good name and fair image. What is the age of referee Sarto Batista who is struggling to push himself even on the sidelines. What about others? It is these physically unfit referees that soil the prestige of our soccer. It is my request to them that all those who are not fitting into the rules of FIFA must withdraw before they are disgraced and forced to leave. Most of the people who are involved in running the soccer association and teams are doing so for their own personal honour and glories. For this reason they do so much, even spending so much of money to run their affairs.
Our people are crazy for name and fame because it missed them back at home. They are suffering from ancestral deficiency and inferiority complex but they must know very well that back home in Goa, they are still non-entities.
Many of the earlier so called mighty Kuwait Goans showing their professional, influential, financial and physical might in Kuwait are now gone underground in Goa. They are living like unknown entities because nobody cares them in Goa. They are afraid even of their own shadows. It is a pity to see them on this “estad”. While they were in Kuwait they were shaking the earth below and around their feet but now in their retired life in Goa, the same earth is shaking them. Yesterday’s presidents, chairmen, other office bearers in our associations; managers and officers, foremen and service advisers and other top positions holders in their companies who were acting like Maharajas in Kuwait are become ordinary tadpoles in Goa now. Our pompous show is meant only in Kuwait. Many of us are like frogs in the pond and we will remain so because the world for us is only around the pond.
When we started our soccer activities in 1979, it was at Sour Grounds. This lasted till the last year but this year we shifted to Salmiya, and according to my information, this place is also closed for us. What will be the next venue for us now? Who will decide? I heard that KIFF have approached the Indian Embassy, Sheikh Talal (President of Kuwait Football Federation), Kuwait Youth & Sports Organization, Kuwait Football Clubs who own football stadiums, and even AIFF Gen. secretary Mr.Alberto Colaco plus other influential individuals. But have they approached with their right people or with Bebde? Do we have capable people in our midst to get a permanent venue for us at a particular place? Do we have influential and clever people for hard bargaining? Do we have capacity to approach the relevant authorities as JP once did by directly approaching the local soccer authority? JP was a gigantic figure and his gigantic power was accepted by others. I only hope something will be materialized soon. Let us hope so.
Finally, as announced during the final, over a lakh of rupees have been collected by the KIFF affiliated clubs and other individuals as gift to the player of KGA who was injured by DHL a few months back. Thru this collection it was proved now that we are ready to shoulder our responsibility towards others who have nobody to take care.
A. Veronica Fernandes,
Kuwait.
